Today’s guest could’ve been a Flash-Gordon villainess! Perhaps, though, she’s actually the heroine!
We shall see if we can sort it out – and talk Forced Bi in the meantime.
Oh, my! Hello, there!
Please, let the audience know: what name do you go by?
“Empress Ming.”
Welcome, Empress! Thank you so much for being with us!
Besides the obviously fitting title, Empress, are there are other, well… adjectives, epithets, modifiers, or monikers that you enjoy?
“‘Alpha,’ ‘Domme,’ ‘Goddess,’ and… ‘Sadist.’”
Ah… Sadistic Empress! Any special reasons? They just… fit you?
“I inherently have an alpha personality. I tend to be the group leader, the matriarch, the one who calls the shots – who has the ideas, and puts them into action.”
Right on.
“I take care of myself and see to it that those around me are taken care of.”
That’s very motherly!
But there’s also the Domme side?
“Domme, yes. I’m definitely a Domme in My kink life.”
And… “Goddess”?
“‘Goddess,’ because God is within all of Us and, like My tattoo says over My womb, ‘God is a Woman.’
“We create and bring forth life. It’s our wombs that create men. Men just donate the sperm.”
Haha! That’s one thing men are always willing to do, it seems.
Your fetish involvement, in general… is it a lifestyle? Pastime? Business venture?
“I have one domestic servant and a spouse in My private life, where I’m always the embodiment of a Dominatrix. It’s who I am. I’m a Dominant, empowered woman.”
I’m getting that sense!
Both spheres blend together? Is it seamless?
“I do need some degree of separation between pro-sessions and My domestic life. I don’t like to bring ‘work’ home with Me.”
So, lifestyle, but with a respect for boundaries. Anything else?
“The separation of the etymology of the words ‘Priestess’ and ‘Prostitute’ is a fairly recent one. The word became two different, sacred and profane polarities when the early fathers of Western Christianity abolished Goddess worship, and other nature-based pagan religions.
“The Hebrew word Zona[1] means both ‘Prostitute’ and ‘Prophetess.’[2] The related Yiddish word for ‘whore,’ Hur,[3] has connotations of a ‘cave, pit, or dark hole.’[4] The Spanish word for ‘whore,’ puta, derives from a Latin term for a well (puteus),[5] and one Latin term for grave[6] – literally a hole in the earth – is puticuli, meaning ‘well-hole …burying-[place],’[7] and symbolizing a ‘womb of rebirth.’[8]
“These terms for ‘whore’ were not derogatory. The Latin term had its root in the Vedic and early Sanskrit language where the words puṇya[9] and pūta[10] meant ‘pure and holy.’[11]
“The cave, the pit, the hole, and the bottomless black lake were metaphors for the Great Goddess, she who is unnamable, that darkness primordial from which all life or light is born.[12]
“Occult traditions – such as tantra and other magical orders which engage in alchemical rituals – hold that sexuality becomes sacred as the Goddess residing in every woman is honored.[13]
“I believe that shame and sexuality only came into being once Christianity suppressed our sexual nature as human beings, and contextualized it with sinfulness and shame. If not for sexual suppression, we wouldn’t have as many kinks and fetishes as we do today, I think.
“If the Bible didn’t say woman should submit to man,[14] and the patriarchy never came about, then we wouldn’t have these dynamics of toxic masculinity. This would include both men that can’t show weakness as well as women who feel that they must move through life – and the workplace – with an iron fist (like a man) to overcompensate for pay-check inequality or being sexualized at the office.
“These distorted versions of self-identity and behavioral complexes came about due to the dynamics that Christianity and the patriarchy brought about. The sooner that that wound in humanity is healed, the sooner the world will become a more balanced place.
“I believe it is a process, but one that is quickly happening.”
Ha! Wow! That was a thought-provoking answer!
What about the flipside: what words do use for people who seek you out? “Betas,” “losers,” “masochists,” “slaves,” “subs,” etc.
“All the above.”
Are they interchangeable?
“It truly depends on the type of person they are, the dynamic they seek, and the kinks and interests that they have.”
So… how did you get into all this?
“Fashion modeling turned into fetish modeling, and fetish modeling quickly helped Me discover the world of Domination.”
Interesting. And how did Forced Bi come into the picture?
“Forced Bi was something I learned about from hearing about different subs / slaves fantasies. I learned about the different psychologies of it. Ultimately, I decided to take a slave to the gloryhole, and see how I felt about it.”
Wow! How did that go?
“It was his fantasy, and I was happy to oblige.
“He loved humiliation, degradation, being a good sissy, and knew his dick was too small to make anyone happy. But he loved being a good, cock-sucking slut. It made his panties wet in chastity.”
Some readers may be able to relate!
And, how did you end up feeling about it?
“I found it enthralling.”
So, how long have you been at this?
“I’ve been a real-time Domme for a decade. But I’m just starting out online.”
I gotcha. So, does that mean you maintain a physical space for BDSM sessions?
“I do have a private dungeon.”
Right on. Are you currently accepting applications?
“Interested readers can send Me an email via My website.”
Readers: Take note!
Is it safe to say that money isn’t your only motivation? Blend of money and pleasure? Among other things?
“It’s both.”
Is this your main occupation? A side hustle?
“It is full-time, yes.”
How do you feel about where things are at right now?
“I’m happy – satisfied.”
Well, congrats!
Anything else you feel comfortable sharing?
“I’m 28, married, and conventional – but certainly not boring! Also… bisexual.”
Right on. Thanks!
Let’s talk more specifically about Forced Bi, shall we?
On the face of it, the “Forced-Bi fetish” has two components: (1) “force” and (2) “bisexuality.” Let’s handle both, but in reverse order.
Do you think that true “bisexuality” – where a person is more of less equally attracted to females and males is possible?
“I do, yes.”
How do you think of Forced Bi, specifically? Lifestyle? Roleplay? Etc. Same complicated blend as your overall fetishism?
“It is combination, for sure – something between a role play and a power trip. But it’s also a game – certainly a fun one!”
Oops… forgot to ask: What’s your preferred term for the fetish? “Coerced bi”? “Encouraged gay”? “Enforced gay”? “Forced Bi”? “Make you gay”?
“Mostly… it’s all the same different. Whichever term suits my mood, and goes down easier for them – no pun intended.”
Ha! Nice! Some claim to prefer that it go down hard, haha!
In practice, “Forced Bi” seems most often to apply to men being somehow impelled to perform sexually (or to imagine performing sexually) with other men. However, in theory, it seems that it could apply to other things – for example, to women being impelled to perform sexually with other women – as well.
Do you see it primarily in terms of male submission, male and female submission, both, or neither?
“Mostly, it applies to guys. I’ve never tried to do forced bi with a woman. I imagine that would be hot, if she was into it.”
I imagine that would be hot!
As far as goes the second core idea, the idea of being “forced” is a little vague. For legal reasons, “forced” probably means something less than literally compelled by threat of force. Which, if any, of the following do you think is most fitting? If possible, please answer in your own words!
“It’s a mixture of permission-granting, persuading, provoking, and seducing.
“Some men are inherently bisexual, yet they’re so far in the damn closet, they wouldn’t dare touch a cock with their own psychological accountability at large. They would never go out of their way to explore that side of their sexuality, unless it’s brought to them by… someone else (cough, cough: My idea).
“Some men already love humiliation and degradation, SPH,[15] etc. They already know they don’t deserve pussy, or they love strapon – sucking strapon cock – creating that fantasy without a man involved.
“I’m just helping them realize that they can take their fantasy further.
“I think making slaves ‘go gay’ is pretty entertaining, as well.”
Mmm… Now my mind is in the gutter…
“I love introducing them to bending their sexuality in different ways, warping their minds, if you will. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with being bi after all. I’m bi.”
Fair.
So… what do you think is actually going on with “Forced Bi”? Does a guy actually change his sexual orientation?
“Actually, I’d say: ‘weak yes.’”
To clarify: You think that some guys can be trained to respond to male-on-male stimulation, and this can potentially alter their orientation over time?
“Just add a reward-based Pavlovian response to forced bi.”
And… voilà?
Can a guy be a real switch?
“Sure; why not? Some people can certainly be a little bit of both – active and passive.”
What about the optics? Do you like the visuals that go along with Forced Bi?
“I like the gender-bending and reversing traditional roles. It’s therapeutic.”
Does bisexuality make a guy more or less attractive, in your opinion? No change?
“Bisexual guys can be attractive.”
What do you think, is the Forced-Bi fetish “healthy” or “unhealthy”?
“It’s healthy. I want my subs to fulfill their cock-whore destinies.”
Haha!
Is that so?
“Honestly, I think it’s productive, psychologically. It assists guys in self-discovery. Some find out they’re latent homosexuals.”
Do you think of any of this is religious or spiritual terms?
“Yes. I think forced bi is somewhat ritualistic.”
Like sex magic or psychological programming? Tantric? Kind of what you were describing, previously?
“We all have both masculine and feminine dualities within us that can need balancing. In that context, embracing a more feminine sexual energy as a male, can be cathartic.”
Nowadays, some people are opposed to the use of so-called “binary language” – e.g., thinking in terms of “feminine” versus “masculine,” etc. – when it comes to John Money’s concept of “gender” and sexuality. But Forced Bi, arguably, has a kind of “bi-narism” built into its name.
Do you see this as a problem for the “Forced-Bi” fetish?
“No, not at all.”
Right on. I always ask.
Okay! The activities!
What homosexual-related activities do you most enjoy ordering or watching?
“I’m partial to cock sucking and… facials.”
Mmm… messy-yummy!
Do you think that Forced Bi, as a fetish, is getting more popular?
“Yes, I do I think it’s getting more popular.”
Any influence or promotion in the so-called “mainstream media”?
“No.”
Which do you prefer, having guys in dedicated roles, or having both guys being plastic enough to perform in any role you want?
“I prefer having one total bottom and one total top.”
Are you aroused by Forced Bi, or just amused by it?
“I’m amused. I feel a power trip. I enjoy bending their sexuality and showing them something that pushes their limits.
“I love getting someone to explore their orientation. It’s mentally a thrill, and hot to watch but it doesn’t get Me ‘aroused.’
“It scratches a different kind of mental itch.”
Interesting!
Do you think that a guy can “just try” sucking cock or getting assfucked and then quit?
“Sure.”
Maybe he likes it; maybe he doesn’t?
“Yes.”
What are you interested in doing? You said this isn’t just online only? So…
“I definitely encourage guys to have real gay sex.”
Is chat a “gateway”?
“It can be. I want to see how far they’ll go… and push them further.”
Kinky!
How “involved” do you like to be? Do you just sit back, issuing instruction?
“I sometimes direct for real.”
That’s hot!
And your biggest turn on is…
“It’s the power, for sure.”
Getting a guy to… do that.
And, limit-wise… do you have any?
“Yes, of course; I have many limits.”
Just for you? Or subs too?
“Both.”
Can I have a for-instance? What about… “barebacking”? Condom-less gay sex?
“Yeah, I totally oppose barebacking. It’s got to be safe sex.”
The guys have to stay clean?
“Oh, absolutely. Everyone needs to practice safe sex.”
What are your thoughts on married guys?
how do you feel about married men?
“I don’t care either way; I don’t even ask.”
And… “poppers”? Er… amyl-nitrite inhalers?
“I actually prefer that subs use poppers.”
No kidding?
“Poppers make subs more pliable and suggestible.”
Haha! Fair enough!
How do you feel about guys really getting addicted to gay sex? Is that a “thing”?
“It’s a risk I’m willing to take.”
Lol!
“It’s usually what the guys really want, anyway.”
I like your style! Lol!
Do you have any particularly memorable Forced-Bi session?
“There was once a slave who sucked 25 cocks as a homage to Me for My 25th birthday. That was wild!”
Ha! Mmm… Dang! Well… let us know when you turn 29, I suppose?!?
What other naughtiness do you get involved with?
“For all of this info, please visit My website and check out My blog and clip stores!”
Ha! Right on!
Hit us with your contact info!
“https://allmylinks.com/empress-ming.”
Go it: allmylinks.com/empress-ming. It’s got everything? A one-stop shop?
“Has My OnlyFans, clipstores, phone lines, cam lines, and website!”
That sounds great!
Well, Empress Ming, thank you so, so much! It’s been enlightening!
(All images of Empress Ming are Copyright 2021, Empress Ming. They are reproduced by Forced-Bi.com, or its affiliates and associates, by permission.)
Notes:
[1] https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/%D7%96%D7%95%D7%A0%D7%94.
[2] See, also, ḥoze, https://www.britannica.com/topic/navi.
[3] See https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/%D7%94%D7%95%D7%A8.
[4] Compare this with the Yiddish word l’ach or lokh with variously means “hole” or “pussy.” In Hebrew, “a cave” is designated with me’arah, https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/meara. But see, also, the Hebrew word for light אוֹר, ‘or,’ https://hebrew.jerusalemprayerteam.org/light/. Note also that Zo-har is said to mean “radiance” or “splendor,” https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Zohar – with har itself meaning “mountain,” https://www.chaimbentorah.com/2016/07/word-study-mountain.
[5] See Charlton T. Lewis and Charles Short, Latin Dictionary: Founded on Andrew’s Edition of Freund’s Latin Dictionary, Oxford: Clarendon Press; Oxford Univ. Press, orig. 1879, reprint 1996, p. 1,495.
[6] The Latin for “grave” is typically given as gravis or sepulcrum. See https://latin.english-dictionary.help/?q=grave.
[7] Lewis and Short, loc. cit.
[8] In Latin, “womb” is usually translated uterum, https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/uterum#Latin. “Rebirth” is more commonly given as regeneration, https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/regeneratio#Latin, or even renascor, https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/renascor#Latin.
[9] https://www.sanskritdictionary.com/pu%E1%B9%87ya/136894/1.
[10] https://www.sanskritdictionary.com/p%C5%ABta/139024/1.
[11] See also the Latin words puto and putus, which have to do with “cleansing and purifying,” according to Lewis & Short, op. cit., pp. 1,495-6.
[12] See, also: Azra Bertrand and Seren Bertrand, Womb Awakening: Initiatory Wisdom from the Creatrix of All Life, Simon & Schuster, 2017 and Seren Bertrand, Magdalene Mysteries: The Left-Hand Path of the Feminine Christ, Rochester, Vt.: Bear & Co., 2020.
[13] Empress Ming related that the above was largely her paraphrase / summary of some of the insights she gleaned from offbeat anthropologist Robert Sepehr (see, e.g., his commentary in the YouTube video “Babylonian Queens of Heaven – ROBERT SEPEHR,” Dec. 15, 2017, https://youtu.be/aaJGeQExoyk.)
[14] See, e.g., the New Testament book of Ephesians, chapter 5, verses 21 and 22: “Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ. Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord,” https://www.biblestudytools.com/ephesians/passage/?q=ephesians+5:21-22.
[15] “SPH” = “small-penis humiliation”