All right, we’re kicking off a New Year of Forced-Bi depravity by discussing our favorite fetish with a self-styled “Priestess of Debauchery” and “Trainer of Men”!
So… readers: consider yourselves warned!
Hi! Welcome! Happy New Year!
What should people call you? What do you go by?
“Mistress Isadora.”
Excellent! Welcome, Mistress Isadora!
Besides “Mistress,” are there are other roles or titles that you think of yourself as, or use?
“‘Domme’ or ‘Domina,’ but also Sadist.”
Right on. These just… gel with your personality?
“I prefer the timeless, classic terminology, as it fits my style of domination.”
Oh, okay!
How do you see your involvement in, well… “fetishism”?
“Being a Domme is my lifestyle. Fucking the patriarchy in its ass, as I liberate my subs from shame – through debauchery.”
Mercy! All right! So… a bit of a social-activist strain, I perceive?
Descend to ascend?
So, how does your philosophy affect your approach? For example, how do you think of the people who seek you out?
“They are ‘slaves’ or ‘subs’ – some are masochists. But all are fetishists.
“Those are the types I enjoy playing with.”
I gotcha!
Any sorts that you don’t care for – or labels that you don’t use?
“I am not a fan of the ‘beta’ or ‘loser’ terminology.”
Okay, interesting.
Did these preferences arise because of your background? Speaking of that, what got you into the world of domination and fetishes, in general – and Forced Bi in particular?
“I had already been a sex worker (a stripper) and nightlife performer for quite a few years prior to becoming a pro Domme. Through those experiences, I met people into BDSM professionally and personally. I became very intrigued, and found a Domme to apprentice with.
“My first session ever was forced bi with two cross dresser – one of which had a piss fetish!”
Mmm…Hot!
What happened?!?
“I was sitting on the toilet ‘throne’ with one sub beneath me, awaiting my piss. We then told the other to get on the floor and start sucking some cock for our entertainment. I began to release my – very full – bladder into the sub’s mouth and all over his face, listening to him gurgle what seemed to be gallons of my piss.”
Oh, gawd! Now, you’re making me fell, um… amorous! Lol!
“I remember looking at the other Domme, laughing, and saying, ‘This is my life, now!’”
Ha! Quite a moment!
“Then, when the sub came, she the fed the contents of the condom to him.”
Ooh… that’s nasty-hot!
“It was amazing – and I was hooked.”
How long ago was this? How long have you been doing this online?
“I have been doing online domination for a few years. I am mainly an in-person-session Domme. That has been for twelve years.”
So… does that mean you have a “dungeon,” studio, or other space for face-to-face, in-person, or real-time meets?
“Before COVID, I was renting a local dungeon. Sadly, and like a few other places, it shut down, due to the pandemic.”
Oh, bummer.
“Currently, I am taking sessions in upscale hotels.”
Oh, that’s a good workaround.
“I have quite an extensive collection of gear for travel.”
Ha! I believe you!
Are you hoping things will loosen up, soon?
“In a few months, when things settle down with the pandemic, I will have my own, private, exclusive play space – which I am extremely excited about.”
Something to look forward to, for sure!
So… what’s your goal?
I mean… is it a money thing? Or are you aiming for money and pleasure? Something else?
“This is my full-time job. So, yes, I am aiming to make money.”
Right on. I was just wondering.
“Though… I am lucky that I get to pursue my passions for a living.”
Right?!
“Not many people get to do that.”
Very true! And… congrats, to you!
You’re now a Domme… exclusively?
“I am a full-time pro Domme as well as being a showgirl.”
Ah, gotcha! Well… very cool!
How about your level of involvement? Satisfied with where things are at?
“Absolutely.”
Anything else you’d like to share with readers?
“I have been a sex worker and nightlife entertainer for twenty years. For the last twelve years, I have also been a pro Domme – an international, award-winning burlesque performer for fourteen years.”
My felicitations!
“I just turned 42 last month. I am straight, and not in a relationship.”
Well… thanks so much for sharing.
I’m thinking about the Forced-Bi fetish, in particular, now.
On the face of it, the “Forced-Bi fetish” has two components: (1) “force” and (2) “bisexuality.” Let’s handle both, but in reverse order.
Do you think that true “bisexuality” – where a person is more of less equally attracted to females and males is possible?
“I do think it is possible.”
So… you said that fetishes, in general, were an extension of your lifestyle. Do you feel the same way about Forced Bi, in particular?
“For me, I think it’s a power trip – an excuse for a sub to be coerced into indulging in his bi fantasies.”
Any name preference? …for the fetish, I mean.
“‘Forced’ or ‘coerced bi.’”
Right on. Some people are partial to certain words and phrases – and averse to others!
Do you see Forced Bi as applying to females and males? Or, well… what does it apply to, mainly?
“Male submission.”
Fair enough.
And… what do you think is going on with Forced Bi? Does a guy “change” his sexual orientation?
“I think it’s different for everyone.
“Some are expressing their hidden bisexuality; some, it’s because they will do anything to please their Mistress; or a combo of both.”
I can see that, sure.
Do you think it’s possible for a guy to be a “switch” …or “versatile”?
“Of course. Why couldn’t a man be a Switch?”
Beats me! I just basically catalog responses.
Some Mistresses seem to think that certain guys are just one way or the other.
What do you think about the “optics”?
I mean, some women profess to enjoy watching guy-on-guy sex. Others maybe… not so much – even if they like the power dynamic or the humiliation aspect.
What’s your view?
“Sometimes, I enjoy watching two hot men suck each other off.
“Sometimes, I simply enjoy the spectacle of it – particularly when I am the one telling them what to do.”
Understandable.
What about desirability? Does bisexuality affect a guy’s attractiveness, in your opinion?
“I don’t see why a bisexual man would be any less attractive to me than a straight man.”
So, does that mean you think of the Forced-Bi fetish as “healthy”? …psychologically speaking, I mean.
“Healthy.”
Cool. Okay.
Here’s a fun one: What homosexual-related activities do you most enjoy ordering or watching?
“Definitely cock sucking, facials, and cum eating.”
Mmmm… nice!
Do you think that Forced Bi, as a fetish, is getting more popular?
“I haven’t noticed any change.”
Nothing by way of the mainstream media?
“I haven’t noticed.”
No, I believe you.
So… are you aroused by Forced Bi? Maybe amused?
“Both.”
That’s hot.
Do you think that a guy can “just try” sucking cock or getting assfucked and then quit?
“Sure, why not?”
I dunno. Some Mistresses suggest that it’s more, well… habit-forming than that.
“Gotta try everything to see if you like it.”
Haha! I guess so.
So, you mentioned both in-person (under non-pandemic circumstances) as well as online activities.
What are you interested in “doing,” then? Are things mostly chat, or do you prefer in-the-flesh encounters?
“Both.”
Awesome.
Presently, where things are heavily online-only, do you just sort of issue commands and assume everything went to plan?
“Oh, no. I want photos!”
Lol!
Biggest turn on?
“Power is a huge turn on for me.”
Ha! Why am I not surprised?
What sexual acts, if any, really charge your batteries?
“Cock suckers and cum dumpsters.”
Mmm… Now, I’m feeling a little warm… Lol!
Okay, I have to ask… limits.
Firstly, I guess: Do you have any?
“Everyone has at least a few hard limits.”
Indeed.
Do you mind if I probe into a few?
So… how do you feel about guys barebacking? No condoms?
“Always engage in safe sex.”
Fair enough.
Okay… “poppers”? What do you call ’em? …amyl-nitrite inhalers?
“They trigger migraines in me; I have a difficult time being around them, unfortunately.”
Oh, that’s too bad. I’m sorry.
How do you feel about guys really getting addicted to gay sex? Is that a “thing”?
“It’s great when men can’t get enough cock in their life.”
Ha!! Mmm…
Have you had any particularly memorable session?
“Definitely my first session – the one I mentioned, above.”
Ha! Right! Kind of hard to beat that one, I can imagine!
“Another was during the play party at Order of Indomitus.”
Oh? Do tell!
“I was having a great time being a voyeur. I was having my feet worshiped while watching some great forced-bi action. The subs were supporting one another, holding hands while taking some big cock. Hot and adorable.”
What else do you get into?
“CBT[1] is my number one favourite.”
Oh?
“I enjoy a wide range of activities including humiliation, SPH,[2] bondage, medical play, ball busting, pegging, CEI,[3] corporal punishment, foot fetish.”
Aha. Yeah. Quite a list, there.
“Those are just a few.”
Where can interested readers go to learn more?
“My website is www.mistressisadora.net
“Twitter: @DominaIsadora
“Onlyfans: https://onlyfans.com/dominaisadora
“C4S: https://www.clips4sale.com/studio/84779
“IWC: https://iwantclips.com/store/603491/dommeisadora.”
Awesome; thanks so much, Mistress Isadora!
All good wishes for the New Year!
Just a reminder to Forced-Bi fans, we now have a Subreddit (Reddit.com/EnforcedBi) devoted to our brand of deviance as well as a few weeks-old Twitter account (Twitter.com/forcedbisexual)! Find us in either corner of the web — or both places! — and say “hi”!
(All images of Mistress Isadora are Copyright 2021, Mistress Isadora. They are reproduced by Forced-Bi.com or its associates / affiliates by permission.)
Notes:
[1] “CBT” = “cock-and-ball torture”
[2] “SPH” = “small-penis humiliation”
[3] “CEI” = “cum-eating instruction”